Window Washer Sex
February 10, 2017
Can impromptu sex have a spiritual quality? Consensual sex between adults has at least a smidgen of conscious spiritualness, and even more than some married couples have between them, sadly. When one enjoys at the expense of the other even if one submits begrudgingly to their married partner just to please the partner, it’s time for a ‘love check up’ for self love quality for each. Sex is about freedom to enjoy each other physically, emotionally, and spiritually in a total disappearance in to oneness with godliness.
Now about ‘window washer sex’ and freedom. Sex and/or love has no limits when mutual. Everyone’s experience and limits of when, where, how, why or what it looks like, and with whom is arbitrary. A few people are filled with lots of love overflowing, but because of that, also with compassion and empathy for who are involved. Some don’t seem to care, and love is not on the mind, or in any form of spiritual foreplay, during-play, or after play.The lower the internal self love, the lower the actions that will be crossing the line of etiquette or ‘moraL common sense’. Religions have laws for the majority who lack understanding of right and wrong as well as the non duality of what’s in-between.
The ‘window washer’ – Back in 2002 in a multiple story apartment condo in Marina del Rey, Ca., I knew an unusual ‘tantric couple’. She was in her late 30’s, a non practicing attorney from Australia, very warm, spiritually minded and pretty. She and her husband seemed to have a good marriage, and one that allowed each other all kinds of sexual liberties as long as they communicated, and were in agreement. One afternoon when he was gone, she noticed a stranger washing her windows. They smiled, and she invited him in with the intent of sharing sex with the window washer. Which they did before he went back to washing windows with a story to tell.
Now could there have been anything wrong with that? From her viewpoint and after telling her husband, nothing but joy. Now the window washer, who knows? If he wasn’t committed with someone, or if committed and they too had an agreement it well could have been an act of love with biology thrown in.
There are infinite dimensions to love, in quality, intent, or whatever. Who is anyone to judge if both partners agree, and that no one else’s potentially hurt. All of life is about the ‘birds and the bees’, while it’s best and important to respect being truthful among all of life and love activities. Inner bliss and truthfulness brings authentic freedom!