Porn, Facebook & Husbands

Porn, Facebook, & Husbands
October 12, 2014
We have a communication problem in America! The shrapnel that results in discordant relationships is more common than not. Clear channels of communication with oneself let alone others is discolored by infinite misperceptions, misinformation, and just avoidance of information that would keep ‘truth’ as one of the most valued phenomenons as it should be. These seem to be the days of ‘technological communication’ that avoids the warm cuddly one that is so missed. Cuddly communication is communication that avoids ‘selective communication’, which is a real perversion of the word! 
 
It’s my perception from continually meeting infinite samples of people in what I do, that there is a serious failure to communicate let alone infinite other values that an evolving human ‘being human’ should be cognizant and active with. Real communication leaves nothing out especially in connection with those who we have committed our life with, be they a partner married or not. 
 
Men generally are unfulfilled sexually in a way that most women are not. When they don’t know how to communicate well, they resort to fantasy and maltreatment of women be they partners or strangers. We complain about our government being ‘selective’ in their information truthfulness, and yet are you not the same? Porn sites and fishing for women on the Facebook social site is not necessarily disingenuous unless it’s done in unawareness of a love partner. I think it’s called ‘cheating’. ‘Cheating’ can be using technology to further pleasure. Alone, it’s a choice and your right. In a partnership and maybe with a family too, it needs to be by agreement, and the wife should always have the same open privileges as the man, and with his positive acceptance. After all, freedom is an essential ingredient of love.
 
Few women are not unfulfilled in love, and due to a lack of communication both with themselves as responsible, and in finding someone who they can have full communication with. Males and females rarely do not just accept mediocrity and missing communication. Most learn to ‘work around’ each other foibles covertly, or selecting to be blind to what the other is up to. Discernment and awareness are important steps into deep love, and a more spiritual life. Angels don’t do well where devils dwell. Life lived without integrity and truth attacks invisible angels who assist in guiding you on life and love’s journey.
 
Bring in the angels for an angelic journey through life. Whatever it takes on the road into love, stay on that road, and avoid the traps of diversions. One of the biggest diversions is to not treasure the blossoming harmony that communication is always sparking.
 

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