WORST 3 WORDS Rant
Arhata
MAY 6, 2014
Far and away the worst three words that can be given at times are, ‘I love
you’!!!! Has it been made meaningless? Has it become an obligatory gesture?
The lack of discernment to meaning from many users behind
those charlatan, abused words is the most serious neglect of the deep sacredness of their personal meaning. It’s like crying ‘wolf’ so much that when it’s real, it has little meaning. I personally hear it so often thrown about recklessly with nothing but ‘teflon , or mechanical meaning of ‘just words’ that it saddens and perplexes me.
‘I love you’ is a deep, emotional heartfelt expression of sacredness for
another that has lasting meanings throughout life. The phrase is not
befitting of being given as the expression used when one offers another
something, and then takes it back. That expression is he is an ‘indian
giver’.
Living a life to really be ‘living’ is to have an open, unlocked heart
with a lock that has been thrown away never to be searched for. People who
frequently use those
words for anyone that is just a gesture are most often
looking for love, and hoping it will be reciprocated, but for good reasons,
it isn’t. Everyone deserves love as it is the very salt (honey) of life,
but only a few have a heart filled with it, and a centered mind to give
and receive it authentically. Call it a phony ‘I love you’. ‘Phony’ is to
be removed from the personal connection, like two people on a phone talking
to each other. This is a world where people sadly live in a ‘gimme-gimme’,
take-take’ set of marginal mind use where the heart mostly grieves at not
getting what one wants.
Amazingly, often people who claim to be ‘a friend’ are really like seagulls
flying in to scope up morsels of food only to fly off with no appreciation.
At least a dog will wag it’s tail, and hang around as well as greet you with
enthusiasm every time. On the other hand, a select few have come to the point
where they are filled
with love so much so that
they are a friend to everyone, but with some common sense discretion. That
unique person who can say, ‘I’m your friend’ really has little choice but one
that must know how to harmoniously position themselves to another for best
protection, or a level of communication. Rarely does anyone have the developed
persona to say they are your friend, and by actions sustain it at any time.
Words, words, words, mean little but to serve the small ego of insecurity. It’s
time to go fishing in deep, deep waters. The catch is the open heart of love,
not the shallow waters of little minnows, and whatever junk comes up. Are you
missing your deep heart? It’s not gone. Breath deeper, and let the feelings come
into the heart to help it’s opening. Conscious, blessed life requires love, deep love.
Existence requires no or very little love. Your Choice! Save the ‘I Love You’s’ for the
real moment! It’s a divine moment of godliness!
