May 29, 2020
The kiss on the lips for the first time of someone you will share love with is one of the treasured moments of life, and love. It is a ‘fire of love’ that always needs to be treasured as a gift from the divine. Who knows what love lurks behind that first kiss.  What starts out as magic and filled with more can always be with awareness, empathy and compassion for the other. And, of course, it’s always a good thing to look in the mirror, but mostly for being honest with what you see inside, and for your own love of self. Don’t always assume you know what love is as it’s an unlimited growth experience to heights unimaginable and unlimited.
The idea of possession lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Instead choose the relationship of a trustee. Everything comes to us in trust, for us to use and then to set it free. The love consciousness of a trustee (and first that trustee is within you) sets us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see  ourselves as trustees of everything that we receive, including our bodies, encourages  our innate capacity to ‘care for with dignity’.
It is a much more relaxing way of relating to the things which we are privileged to receive in life. Love is a powerful force. It can take us to great heights and leave us feeling light and airy. Yet it has been the most abused and misused force. Many degraded things pass for love. Real love is not a ‘yo yo’ that comes and goes, at least that is not the love you should accept as anything other that ‘love that is not a trustee’.
True love is based on understanding, mutual trust and respect and not simply on transient emotions. Love is being in balance, that is, in harmony with the self, God and each other. Love dwells in the soul. We must allow this love to flow out and around us. Without love, all of life’s treasures are locked away from our vision and experiences, for indeed ‘Love is the key.’ Harmonious Positioning with yourself and with others is love vibrating.
Relationship actually, from one point of view, means something complete, finished, and closed. Love is more than a relationship, but relating. It is a verb and is ‘relating’ and like a river, always flowing and unending. Relationship is like a pond, non moving. In love the honeymoon begins and is never ending. Lovers end, the love continues. I have loved many, and the feeling continues. Love really is a special life magic. Everything, including the planets and stars are in a constant harmony with each other. We love the moon always coming, hence the ‘honeymoon’. Love is always a trustee of a ‘honeymoon’.
