Self Love Crash
October 16, 2018
Time to love your ego while self examining it for flaws of ‘self importance’ or ‘self criticism’. Let your ego reach a point of steadiness by letting go of minds shrapnel of times long ago that have nothing to do with now. No one needs to take mind selfies of yesteryear. Time to be free and loving. If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is to stop digging. At the same time, be open to others of good intent to criticize you in healthily ways rather that putting up a shield to make others fearful of pointing out what you may need to look at.
Love is not just a word to describe occasional ‘feel good’ moments that come and go. Certainly everyone has encountered the serial expresser of ‘I love you’ to every Tom, Dick, and Mary. Is it looking for love from others because they (you?) are too insecure to really know how to love themselves, and actually don’t even know what they don’t know of what deep love is. A broken record of ‘I love you’ is to lose the deep meaning of the real feeling of the most beautiful expression put into words in whatever language.
You need to take the motivation to lift the veils of darkness that you carry from the past and let go. There are many basic effective living ‘bootcamp’s or workshops available to set you on the favorable path of the few who had little childhood damage. It is taking responsibility for your personal well-being in a way that is holistic, it’s a lifestyle not a momentary rush to judgment. It doesn’t matter the issue – politics, health, your investments, — stress and anxiety lead to making bad decisions based on fear. And living in fear is the last thing any of us want to do. It is, ultimately, why we do the things we do — to satisfy present and near-future needs to allay anxiety about what unexpected thing will come at us next
To continue egregious, glaring behaviors that consistently run you into personal poor communicative problems, is really the ‘universe’ talking to you to pay attention, and find ways to let go of those life impediments. Nothing in the way you are changes without total complete passionate intent and doing relentlessly what is necessary if the past needs correcting before you can float in a ‘self love’ way thought the rest of your life. Kick denial out of your lackadaisical acceptance of what you don’t like about yourself. On the inside, you are the best the universe/god can offer. ABC – always be seeing.