Love’s a Fickle Bitch
March 15, 2018
Love can be tricky and fickle – well deserved though. Misuse of love or inattention to it, makes it so. Love is a moody ‘thing’ when it’s not given proper attention in terms of quality and quantity. Love exposes the disingenuous reasons for connecting in marriage or otherwise. Love is a great measuring stick, but sadly it’s invisible to most, or not even payed attention to when the mind looks for every answer to phenomenon other than love, then being short circuited on love energy. There is a saying that’s applicable – a leopard doesn’t change it’s spots easily – and love that’s spotty doesn’t either without opening the heart and awareness.
Not long ago, both male and female had their separate but sometimes overlapping needs for partnering. Men wanted steady sex, and women wanted protection and monetary support. Sometimes this was unconscious but generally true as the overwhelming mysteries of mutual euphoria made its presence. Call it whatever you want, maybe an appendage of naivety or just stupidity. There is a saying, if we can understand the problem, we will find the answer within. Maybe it’s a weird sense of xenophobia as a fear of strangers, the stranger being you to yourself. You are a manipulator of you by creating illusions. Mind is a parasite, a deceiver and a creator of the inversions of truths.
Go deep with anything you want to experience and know well. So called ‘drug scientists’ have come up with a ‘love hormone which in nature is a hormone that’s made in the brain, in the hypothalamus. It is transported to, and secreted by, the pituitary gland, which is located at the base of the brain.” I’ve read where certain elements of the government actually use it on dissident crowds or groups such as a war enemy to change their behavior to an unconscious more heartfelt situation. Oxytocin, the chemical, referred to as the love hormone is often referred to as the hug hormone, cuddle chemical, moral molecule, and the bliss hormone due to its effects on behavior.
Unselfish happiness for you and others is the truth. Love is the best elixir to act in an osmosis way integrating the brain and heart into deeper compassion and empathy. Although a strong word, evil is the replacement of a vacuum of love. Evil is an ‘inversion of live’, and an obsession with death rather than life. Absence of love is a kind of psychopathy where there is no empathy or remorse of what you do. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation. The universe defined as ‘god’ magically feeds you who are in strong tune with the positive and love with deeper energy filling your life daily. Pull that energy into your life! Be in presence, and all that is illusory falls away, and what is left is real, vital, and passionately alive.