June 25, 2017
Individually and collectively we are controlled by secrets. The world is controlled by secret societies many centuries old that over time morph into new names and ways of deception to control the populace. Non communication or censored communication reaches its usually negative implications into communities, private enterprises, but really begins on a personal basis. Secrecy allows deception and illusion. This is your and my life at the most evolved and best (?)time in history. Bottom line, communication is a two way street, not one way for the advantage of the secret keeper over the victim.
Why be a victim to sneaky business? Years ago in New York I became privy to married deception, and one way communication, which is kind of an oxymoron since keeping a secret from who you are married to with love is well, reprehensible. Maryanne and Donnie were high school sweethearts. College educated, lived in a two story while house with green shutters and a white picket fence in an upscale New Jersey town. They at the time of this story, had 3 beautiful kids, the oldest daughter was eight. Maryanne was a beautiful, warm, friendly ideal American wife with the all American dream family.. Donnie was a Princeton graduate trader on Wall St. Donnie had been telling Maryanne for a year that he either worked late or went to the gym. One night, he announced he was moving out, and wanted a divorce as he was choosing to be with someone else. Maryanne had no inkling of what led to the happening. Deception through secrecy starts with the individual uncaring enough who it hurts, and mirrors the same behavior right up to the leaders and controllers of world power and money.
This ‘secrecy’ for self enhancement is a form of sadism. It is often covered up with lies and strangely ‘good deeds’ to assuage the inner guilt, but harms those in innocence. it’s not unlike the deviate act of the pervert putting a ‘drug’ in someones drink to create a victim who can be controlled for use like a live cadaver. Communication is honesty and looking for the pluses of validation to give to yourself and others. Poor communication may begin in youth, but you are always on the stage of life’s truths.
The effort needed to cover up ‘covert’ secrecy has a domino effect of lie after lie after lie. There is much less effort to learn and practice the secrets to evolving into a balanced and healthier you. No one gets hurt, and you know who your really are as life continues on the train of best options through dark days into the light. There is no comfort in the truth but there can be mental hell when the truth that’s covered up is revealed. Life can be filled with joy and bliss that is the best fuel for whatever arises. The power of love comes in communication from the heart.