Let Go of Love?
May 31, 2016
It may sound shocking, but not letting go of some love is harmful to your well being and future. Lonely hours with memories lingering of a love gone to the stars can be anti love. Let dawn break and see the sunrise begin, and a whole new day and life can break. Love doesn’t want to be a shadow with an umbilical chord that doesn’t let you move on and start over again. Remember the heart needs a door to fly out into more love, and not be battened down to an attachment that casts a shadow in every day, month and year on more freedoms.
Three in bed is not as bad as four in bed meaning when in bed with someone, disconnect from all else including past memories, and if course, in ‘bed’ is a metaphor for any close connection. To hoard memories is to lose or dilute love’s possibilities. When two people are attached to memories, there is a strangulation of the freedom to love with no conditions. This behavior becomes a habit that is like a hamster spinning endlessly on a wheel. Let go of the masks that you hide behind and discover who you are instead.
Know where you are within, and where you are going, unobstructed by the cobwebs or rosebushes of yesteryear. Some ask their ‘god’ to give them peace, purity, and blessedness, but yet can’t ever find them. The question is why?
The answer is ‘a lack of practicing them. Sowing and reaping, remember we become reapers of what we sow.
I have a friend who was a very rich middle age guy who met a beautiful girl from a Beirut, Lebanon royal family. Both were hugely entitled in their lives. He lived in and owned a mansion on the beach in Sarasota, Florida. She was 24, spoiled, well schooled, and was use to having everything, but from a very dysfunctional family. Short story, when I did my relationship analysis on them a few years ago, they both scored individually, very poor for any relationship. Seven years later, he’s lost all his millions, and she’s living from a suitcase still thinking she’s the ‘belle of heaven’. He fell in love, still haunting him emotionally, she is too squirrelly and up and down emotionally. Told him, just today, that they each got Karma, and need to let go of what negatives from their past childhoods haunts their every day.
‘Wise men never fall in love’ is an old statement. I’d like to amend that. Wise people hopefully never ‘fall’ in love especially when their love of self isn’t just ‘adorning their good fortunes’ while ignoring the growth of love within! Wise people know that they must elevate and fix their ‘love consciousness’ and realize falling in love is not anything like the blessedness of two people having risen in the love within themselves, and then merging that love with another. All other love is a ‘battleship’ being attacked and attacking. Love that wasn’t filled with endless bliss must always be detached from for freedom to love oneself, and ready for love again that is a stairway to heaven’s bliss. Rising in love is never one attached to for endless pain. Love is always free! Always remember, meditation fills the heart of love ‘alone’, and makes you ready for love connections that come.