Instant Love Transformation
Oct. 10, 2011
Every moment is an instant transformation – you’re moving into a time, and place where you’ve never been before! Transformations on many levels are presenting themselves all the time, it just takes one to be aware of them and float with the opportunities. Standing still, or rowing against the tide is often an option, but at a cost to positive transformation. It’s always time to travel down Alice in Wonderland’s ‘rabbit hole’ within yourself, and the outside world. Skating on the surface of life is to be at the expense of bobbling feelings, experiences, and unlimited negativities.
Transforming a low level love persona, or a love-hate persona can happen in a moment, it’s just that most forget the moment, and slide back into old safe, unloving ways. It’s easy to say you’ll move as deep as possible into the space of love where all negative, fears, doubts, excuses, etc. can be transformed right here and now. Think of moments when your life changed, and how fast it happened. That same happening is within your grasp with your constriction of love by having the intent, and letting the heart be involved in every decision.
Ironically, at some point, drop all thoughts of letting love in, and just be. Be in awareness with all concerns and thoughts brushed aside, love will arise of it’s own accord. What follows is a quote that I substituted one word for another in quotes: Both a concentration camp prisoner and world-respected author and psychotherapist in his lifetime, Viktor Frankl writes the following advice about happiness:
“Don’t aim at ‘love’ – the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For ‘love’, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for ‘love’: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. – ‘Love’ will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.”
Be open to criticism by trusting someone who has found a deep love within themselves to guide you. Allow them to merge with your deepest self, and suggest opportunities for you to let go of barriers so that a ‘surrender’ happens of it’s own course within you when you are ready. It will be love’s orgasm that comes when you least expect it. Life then becomes a joy, and a blessing through every challenge and gift.