March 10, 2011
There are no soul mates to be found for anyone, unless the self programming for inner appreciation, and love for the self is intact. Any dislike for who you are inside, especially with unresolved issues of the past is a ‘deal breaker’ for any connection with a partner that is different than billions of unhappy past generation people have had. All the looks, fame, and/or money in the world is only for sale to the ‘shallow self troubled’ partner. We attract what we are, and repel what we are not, even if the attraction is filled with the euphoria of first impressive soon to be ‘converted to illusion’.
The ‘soul mate’ of the divine enchanting one you seek is in each personal heart waiting for you to nourish, and send the ‘enlightened fragrance up to the mind’. Relying on biological urges, and vision fantasies are just that – fantasies of the mind that the ‘lower brain below the belly button gets excited about. Without ‘reason of common sense’ the combination of lower and upper mind is a trap that can either be an inescapable one or one that creates ‘hard to fix’ damage for moving on in healthy ways.
The troubled mind only serves to reinforce the same to the heart. The heart automatically has a shield if it’s not ready with a clear mind to participate in any deep lasting connection with another. The upper and lower groin brain is very likely to override a troubled mind, and a ‘shielded heart’ to satisfy it’s wants and desires. Humans are inclined to accept the ‘common routine pill’ that ensures following the pack of everybody else. The ‘breakout pill’ leaves behind all but the wisdom of the heart, experience, and contemporary, successful, rare one with deep love for themselves. If one wants to excel at anything, you must find and learn from those who already do.
Obsessing with the outer while essentially ignoring the inner is like keeping the car shiny and clean while expecting the engine to always work the same as when it was new. Self doubts about your being all you could imagine ‘inside’ are ‘triggers’ to alert you that more letting go of that causing the doubts, needs to happen while moving inward to the heart is essential to finding the soul mate within. Find that passion for seeking the illusive self inner love. Spend more time relaxing with eyes closed, while breathing in and out deeply, just watching whatever comes up. Soon bliss will begin seeping in, and in time, an endless supply of a loving energy that is like a mating with ‘self love’.