Garden of Hedonism (Monica & Bill Clinton)
October 8, 2009
Romance is ‘love motivated’ and not about ‘oral sex’ motivation! Yesterday on the number two most popular talk show on TV, ‘Dr. Phil’, the topic concerned teenagers (13-17) having a new approach to the ‘kiss’ by the hundreds of thousands. What use to be ‘kissing or making out’ by those old folks over 25 or 30, is now significantly replaced by the males pressure to kiss his ‘tool of selfishness’ instead! Is former President Bill Clinton and his non-sexual relations claim’ with Monica Lewinsky a motivator or, is the ‘porno internet’ a larger factor?
In any case, sex for gratification among teenagers, with emphasis on ‘social pressures’ to relieve the ‘boys’, is apparently on the upswing of popularity. Parents are completely in the dark about the ‘fad’! Males have always been genetically programmed through higher sex needs (testosterone) to impregnate the female for survival of the species. Still the 13 year old today with the new influence of ‘outside forces’, including greater alcohol and drug use (marijuana included), is ‘reverting’ to ‘earlier man back to the neanderthal’ in his sexual practices. Supporting that is his awareness that families have more divorces, excessive life styles, more couples working and, parents who show no where near enough love among themselves. The causes of making sexual gratification more important than love are numerous.
I have always been aware of the majority of males avoiding love contact for ‘biological need satisfaction’ and, females being confused and accepting while they sometimes enjoy but, unconsciously miss the ‘supernatural/conscious love’ that is there for those who put it as a priority. Meaningless sex has it’s place with consensual mature people, particularly if people already have a deep connection with each other. Superconscious sex means ‘deep love’ with no inhibitions to a total merger with the other.
It’s common to avoid deep contact with one’s partner in lieu of ‘having fun’ not realizing that one or both (particularly the male) is just satisfying primordial urges like any animal. Even closing the eyes when facing each other is common instead of the cultivation of deep love through looking into each others eyes for long periods. Advice to females – if a guy doesn’t spend considerable time in sex with deep looking in your eyes, look other wheres! Teenager girls: most guys don’t care who you are and you are nothing more than a passing memory with nothing resembling ‘unconditional’. Always be open to deep love and, compassion for the other, when it’s not there.
